Roberto – 40

Good morning. I am a married man with two young children. Unfortunately life has changed and I would like, even if in a hidden way, to have new experiences. Not knowing where to start I thought I could start with myself … What could you recommend? Which path to take? Thank you

Hello Roberto, married life, and above all that of father, mean that in a consolidated couple the intimacy and sexual complicity of the first years together may disappear, his problem unfortunately is common in many couples, that with the passing of the time, they dedicate themselves to their partner, no longer as a lover, but simply as a husband and family man, and obviously vice versa in the case of his wife. Keeping the fire of passion alive is fundamental to fully enjoy one’s married life, otherwise all those sexual and non-sexual pleasures that we no longer cultivate at home, with the natural consequences of a break of the relationship. What I advise you, is to rediscover the pleasure that has linked you to your partner, to start from there and together embark on a path of sexual growth that in recent years has definitely stopped. What is the best path to take will you discover together, talking to each other about their sexual fantasies, and how to share them. Remember the first fundamental thing that men often forget: the same sexual fantasies and needs that a man has, even a woman has them, so why look for what we already have at home?
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